I Stay Woke

I don't know where to begin....

2010-07-22T06:31:00.001-07:00

I know I've been gone for a minute, but I am going to make a commitment to blogging again. There has been so much going on, but for the most part it hasn't all been productive. I am a serious procrastinator and distraction lover. I wait until the last minute and even in that moment, I look for something else to do.

It's time to grow the hell up. At damn near 30, you'd think that to be a ridiculous statement, but it's true. The hair on my face. Bass in my voice. Height. Weight. Education. None of that means a hill of beans when you can't face the present in a mature manner. I've been running away and running in circles. If it is to be, it is up to me. It's a process I've avoided for damn near 30 years. Long overdue.

What are you guys reading out there? I'm reading a book entitled "Growing Up Black". It's a collection of essays that include the stories of Amiri Baraka, Angela Davis and Maya Angelou to name a few. It captures poignant moments in their coming of age. I find it ironic that I would be reading this book and experiencing the recent eye openers on my very own immaturity.

Adam4Adam and BGC may have become an addiction for me. I don't necessarily hook up with any of the guys, but the sites were becoming a Facebook for me. So, I deleted both. I've deleted before. Let's see how long this last.

Until the next blog....

I may be late, but I'm loving VV Brown...

The Random Holiday Wishes

2009-12-26T04:25:00.001-08:00

I'm not alone in being in reciept of the million holiday themed text messages. I lost count early yesterday morning. They all come from a good place, but I find them a little unecessary. Technology has damn near erradicated the more thoughtful tradition of sending a Christmas card. I particularly would send out the most beautiful African American inspired cards to friends, coworkers, and family alike. It's those little touches that make the difference. A mass, random text to everyone in your calling list is informal and generic at most. However, in this economy and climate I realize postage may be a little much. However, there are egreetings cards as an alternative.

Anyway, I said this all to say that a large number of my Christmas texts came from mysterious numbers. I never text them back to say "Who Is This?". For several reasons like:

They thought of me enough to save my number on their phone.
They are simply wishing me a merry Christmas, not requesting a kidney.
Maybe I should leave well enough alone.

Needless to say, I didn't know what ex-boyfriend, ex-friend, one night stand, former co-worker, family member was behind a lot of the well wishes, but I am appreciative to be at the push of their thumb via the send button.

Has anyone out there had any interesting moments with anonymous Holiday text messengers?

Water Sports

2009-09-30T01:11:00.000-07:00

Water Sports? Why? One of my former booty calls/acquaintances mentioned an interest in it. Asked if I would partake with them in it. We haven't chatted since. I can't get down with it. There is not enough tequila/crack/cocaine/marijuana in the world... It disgusts me.

He's a great guy. We had some great times. That was a big turn off for me. Anyone else encounter any fetishes that wound up being deal breakers?

Single and Loving It?

2009-09-30T01:04:00.000-07:00

Okay, I admit that I've had my fair share of ups and downs on this whole relationship rollercoaster. I can attribute may a failure and success to myself. And across the board, I've gotten the same feedback in regards to me not being emotionally/physically available, honest, considerate, and the list goes on and on. I accept some, but not all of the critiques, but that has nothing to do with why I'm writing...

I've been officially single for almost a month. And when I say officially single, I'm referring to not having any ties to anyone (booty calls included) and I'm refreshed but still feel a void. It's like I'm longing for something. I don't know what exactly it it. I certainly don't want to be in a relationship. More specifically, I don't want to be in a relationship with anyone that I know of right now.
I wouldn't mind dating. Hey, that may be what I'm missing. Who the hell knows. It's 4 AM and this is what is on my mind...
The freedom I love. I think it's the lonliness that's getting me.

Making Sense Of It All

2009-09-11T00:00:00.000-07:00

I know that I am not alone. As I've journeyed through this masterpiece called life, I've had some good days and some bad days. I've made some good decisions and some bad decisions. I've had some good friends and some bad friends. I've been both as well. I've been thinking about all of this. I've been trying to make sense of it all. I've asked why.
I've done all of this thinking, only to arrive at the conclusion that I'm thankful from where I've come, where I'm at, and where I'm going.
Although the past is the past, it's still relevant. I have to digest the good with the bad. This is random. Your boy has been going through though. For real. Hope to return to the blogosphere full time soon. Much Love

Still Here...Fatal Floosies And All

2009-07-28T23:49:00.000-07:00

I have been so busy. I mean seriously busy. I ain't complaining. I almost forgot how to blog though. LOL. I read an interesting book by none other than one of my fave authors, Pearl Cleage, entitled "Deals with the Devil and Other Reasons to Riot". It's an older collection of essays but she's filled with so much truth, that bad boy will be relecvant for generatios to come. My fave essay would have to be "Fatal Floosies". In a nutshell, she really goes there on how one should embrace their sexuality and sexiness. I went through a phase where I would feel guilty about a one night stand or F*ck Buddy. After reading that essay, I totally felt better about it. Not that I went out and sowed my oats to every Tom, Dick, Harry or shall I say Malcolm, D.J., and Chris...LOL. It's okay to be sexually responsible. But you have to be both in this day and age. Hetero or Homo. It doesn't matter. Nobody wants to be a "Fatal Floosie". I won't go into that. Pick up a copy from Amazon, Ebay, or whatever to find out if you qualify.

BTW::::I had a one night stand that has not left my mind. It was passionate. It was sweet. It wasn't the usual f*ck and go, go and f*ck. I secretly longed for it to last longer. But I wouldn't allow myself to get suckered into those thoughts for long. It was what it was. But I like it.

Good Night Blogosphere!

Anita Baker is Long Overdue

2009-06-30T07:24:00.000-07:00

In a non MJ related post, I went to see Anita Baker live at Chastain Park this past weekend. She was fabulous. She looked every bit of thirty something and sounded every bit of the "Rapture" and "Sweet Love" the radio speaks of. It rained, but not even that could've spoiled the evening. With wine in hand, she took me on a rollercoaster of emotions, as I reminisced on past loves and the overall longing to get some of that stufff she sings so sweetly about it. She said it herself that she wanted to do more political songs, but she sings love songs better. That is the damn truth. Where is her Lifetime Achievement Award? Next year, BET Awards can redeem themselves with a fitting tribute to Anita Baker. I can see Tamia, Mary J. Blige, Toni Braxton, Jazmine Sullivan, or even a Solange could be a part of the lineup.

One of my fave Anita Baker songs..."Watch Your Step" (Aint that Truth)

I like everything about this...

2009-06-19T05:11:00.000-07:00

;)---This started my Friday off right. He needs to be signed!

Miller High Life and Hathaway

2009-06-07T17:58:00.000-07:00

It's Sunday. There are a million things I should, could, would do today. But I'm relaxing, sipping on a 24 oz while Donny Hathaway's live cd provides the sound. I know I've been under a rock, but I inten to resurface on this thing soon enough. But until then..... "I've Been So Many Places..." (sung with drunken conviction, lol)

I hated it and then I gave it a try

2009-05-12T13:24:00.000-07:00

I have never been a big Clint Eastwood fan. Something about him always came off as stiff and unaffected. I respect his career in artistry. He has a loyal fan base that I can now say I am a part of. Gran Torino will reduce the strongest to tears and skeptics to laughter. I loved this film and can honestly say it was one of my faves of the past year. It should be on DVD soon. Please check it out. This film challenges you think outside the box and to put down those rose colored glasses. Ignorance is ignorance regardless of who the target is. Whether it be gay, black, asian, or white, we all bleed the same blood. The sad part is this revelation is often made too late, when blood is shed.

And It Came To Me Like An Epiphany

2009-05-12T09:37:00.000-07:00

I've been addicted to the latest Chrisette Michelle CD. It passed the test. The test being a CD in which I can listen to it from beginning to end without mashing the skip button. I like this one so much better than her first CD. "Epiphany" is among only a select few CDs that I actually spent money on this year. It's worth every penny. Now, I've just got to wait on her to go on tour. My fave song is "Blame It On Me"

Thank You For Being A Friend

2009-04-25T18:57:00.000-07:00

I am so, so, so gay for this. But I've got to tip a 40 my fave Golden Girl, Bea Arthur. I don't think a week goes by without me catching an episode of that show. Sometimes on purpose, others on accident. But it keeps me laughing none the less.

Feeling Freaky and Leela

2009-04-07T18:26:00.000-07:00

Nothing more to say...I've been feeling rather horny lately. Horny for some new flavor...someone new. I've also had the newest Leela James' offering on repeat. Let's Do It Again pays homage to some classic R&B hits. She, of course, puts her own touch on each song. Maybe I can combine the two somehow...

I absolutely loved it....

2009-03-30T07:43:00.000-07:00

As if I'm already not one of the biggest Jill Scott fans, but she's sold me on yet another venture of hers. The acting thing is not a fluke, she's multi-faceted and I can't wait for the next episode. I loved it! Please check out the No.1 Ladies' Detective on HBO Sundays.

When to say When...

2009-03-24T12:43:00.000-07:00

I never really understood the plastic surgery craze, particularly in the black community. I could honestly see it's purpose in reducing the appearance of an unsightly scar, but to just throw your face away. Hell no! Most of the people that I think have suffered under the knife, looked perfectly fine beforehand. I've ran across bits and pieces of Dancing With The Stars. Although, I'm rooting for Lil' Kim, not a second goes by that I wonder what was dying inside her, to allow her face to be mutilated. She calls herself the black Barbie. If that was her goal, it was missed completely. Black girls aren't supposed to look like Barbie. Black girls are supposed to look like black girls, with black noses, black lips, etc... There was a whole Black is Beautiful movement that I think she totally come back into play these days. I think this will be yet another thing the Obama's will be secretly charged with. Michelle and Barack haven't had a lick of work done. I'm hoping that everybody can look at them, and just find comfort in their own skin. I was going to get on Michael Jackson, but that's been done. Michael said to hell with being black, to hell with even being a human being. He looks like something from Star Trek:Deep Space Nine. Vivica Fox is another one. The thing I liked about her in the beginning of her career was that she looked like a round the way girl. She wasn't ugly, nor was she super hollywood glam. She was that cute girl that you could see walking in your neighborhood, working the checkout at your local Winn-Dixie, teaching 6th grade at the elementary, or singing in the church choir. She now looks like another Barbie wannabe. These cosmetic procedures are dangerous and not worth it in my opinion. Especially, if you wind up looking like a long lost, evil cousin of your former self. I digress...

This Made My Day

2009-03-24T00:08:00.000-07:00

I absolutely love Anita. I love Mary. I love her even more for taking on an Anita classic like that. I didn't know she had it in her. She did the damn thing. This made my day. I so wish I could've been there.
Check it below: Mary J. Blige and Anita Baker performing "Angel".

"You see what music can do..."

Melt My Heart To Stone

2009-03-19T15:03:00.000-07:00

The title of this post is the same of one of my fave Adele songs from Grammy award winning album, 19. I spent my St. Patrick's Day in ATL with the lovely singer from across the water. I thoroughly thank London for not being selfish with this talent. She sounded just as good (if not better) than her CD. She took the audience on a joy ride through her CD. I was with her, every step of the way. That is if I wasn't checking out some of the cute guys that were also in attendance. I may have to continue going to Adele concerts. She's a real man magnet, LOL. If she's ever in your area, do not hesitate to check her out. She's got soul and the girl will rip your heart out, transcribe all that it's been through, and give it back to you in ballad form. I heart Adele.

Now, This Is My Jam

2009-03-13T12:44:00.001-07:00

I'm loving the song, concept, and Chrisette. I can't wait for this album to drop! How many of ya'll have had this epiphany???

So, it's really over

2009-03-12T00:01:00.000-07:00

So, once upon a time in my formative queer years I jumped into a relationship. (I jumped into those rather quickly back then which is probably why I still can't get them right to this day....but I digress) It started out as a "sex" thing. Those "sex" things can sometimes build into "emotions" which can lead to "relationships". I won't go on and on about this thing. We'll call him "Asshole" because that's the best name for him right now. He can probably call me a few choice ones as well. I cheated on him. I lied to him. I was awful. He wasn't a saint either, but I think I did the most damage. Anyways....It's been over four years. We talked since the break up. We even would see each other from time to time. Early on, there was sex involved, but that dwindled off as we were trying to be friends. Well, there was a mutual frenemy that we had. His friend. My enemy. (Not really my enemy, I just don't do him.) We'll call him "Messy". I know that "Asshole" and "Messy" have recently became pretty tight via facebook/myspace. The other day, "Asshole" crossed my mind and whenever that happens, I like to reach out, whether it's an email/phone call/text just to see that everything is okay. This "Asshole" proceeds to tell me to "lose the number". I didn't have it in me to ask why or care. I put 2 and 2 together. "Messy" has shared some things with him. What? I don't know. Are they true? Some probably are. So, talk about closure! That was one relationship that I felt really bad about. I know that I wasn't perfect. I know that I made some mistakes. If light has been shed on some or all of those things, good! I never meant to hurt dude. I know that was not his intention either. Some people are in your life for a lifetime, while others are just for a season. Even though his little nickname may say otherwise, I'm over it. I wish him the best. Peace out, "Asshole".

The "S" Word

2009-03-04T00:15:00.000-08:00

I was thinking that if the NAACP could come togther and put on a funeral for the "N" word, Can someone throw one for "Swagger". That word has been misused and abused. People that it doesn't even apply to are claiming it and throwing it about. If I hear that shit in one more song.....

That's My Jam....

2009-02-26T18:20:00.000-08:00

2 Caucasian Persuasions That Irritate The Sh*t Out Of Me!

2009-02-26T08:58:00.001-08:00

Okay these two white people have been giving my television a headache lately. I'll start with the big gimmick that is Becky a.k.a. "Buckwild". Her "homegirl" act is old and I really wish she would stop all together. I caught an extended glimpse of her best "Quandalesha Bongesha" impression on an episode of I Love Money 2. Now, I must admit that all of the characters on there have to be a tad bit embellished but she is by far the worse. She got busted on Flavor of Love for being a fraud. You'd think she'd given up the whole thing by now. You'd think that someone like Saaphyri, her BFF, would have checked her on that insulting BS by now. I digress. I'll probably catch another episode or two or three, lol.
Now anyone who has been watching American Idol has got to be familiar with Nick Mithcell/Norman Gentle. Can I be one of the first to say that Norman Gentle isn't even funny. This mofo has worn out "And I Am Telling You..." . I wonder if that is the only song he knows. The gig has to be up. The weird thing is that when he sings, there are actually parts that reveal that he can possibly be a decent singer. I thought that he would've scrapped the crap last night and performed as himself. Needless to say, he brought out old trusty and made an ass out of himself. He can not advance with that B.S. I know there are millions of people that auditioned that are probably throwing remotes and other inanimate objects at their flat screens when he pops up. Well these are two white people that really annoy the sh*t out of me. I could create a list of their black counterparts but that would take up a couple of posts, lol.

Okay India, I get it.....

2009-02-20T09:51:00.000-08:00

As any follower of this blog can attest, I acquired a new found respect for India.Arie over the last year or two. I wasn't big on her initially. I loved "Brown Skin" and Who didn't love "Ready for Love". I was going through a real rough patch with work, myself, and relationships when I purchased my first India.Arie CD, Testimony: Love and Relationships, Volume 1. I don't know if she's a mind reader or psychic. She really fed my soul with her infinite wisdom and melodic voice. I can remember weeping in my cubicle at work, listening to some of those heart felt tunes.
Fast forward to this past summer and she was the special guest at a Rachelle Ferrell concert. She blew me away and I made sure to own everything else that I was missing from her repertoire. I became a true fan.
Fast forward to this month and the release of her newest offering, Testimony:Love and Politics, Volume 2. I would've posted sooner, but to say that I was initially underwhelmed is an understatement. I didn't like it at first. After a few listens, I realized why I didn't like it. India.Arie is a chameleon. She is an artist that doesn't stagnate. She moves with the pulses of this earth. I think I was expecting something she had already produced. After A few listens, I fell in love with it. She's tied everything in with an interlude Grains. This interlude really speaks to how everyone is connected. It doesn't matter if you are gay, straight, Mexican, Dyslexic, rich, or poor, we are all made from the same grain. I really love the remake of a Sade classic entitled "Pearl", "Psalm 23" (featuring MC Lyte) and "Yellow" (featuring cutie, Terrell Carter). So, I get it now India, you speak to the current situations through your music. We shouldn't expect a repeat of your past musical conquests, but get with the times, as you have so beautifully done. Go get it! Go burn it! Whatever you do, experience it!

Take A Little Piece Of Me

2009-02-18T14:17:00.000-08:00

I've been going through this thing we all call life, just as good and as bad as the rest. I've seen friends come and go. I've seen friends resurface from so far back, that I had to blow the dust off of them. I understand that everyone is placed in our lives for a reason. I also understand that we're placed in people's lives for a reason. I'm saying all of this because I've been reflecting upon my personal and professional relationships as of late. It's got me to wondering what happened to such and such and why have I put up with his/her shit for so long. I've arrived at some weird answers. For instance, I've realized that a friend of mine that absolutely annoys the shit out of me has shown me my strengths in her weakness, as well as my weaknesses in her strengths. I guess it's a classic case of give and take. She still drives me crazy, but I can semi-overlook the annoyance when I look at the pay off. Another friend of mine betrayed my trust to the infinity power. I vowed to never talk to her again. She, however, resurfaced in my life and like a virus, won't go away. I realized that we actually have a great time whenever we go out or socialize. We create our own "club" within a club, or our own "event" within an event. We can truly forget our troubles together. I had to learn a lesson of forgiveness with this one. I'm sure she took something away from the ordeal as well. What? Who Knows? I would hope that anyone I've interacted with, has walked away with of piece of me. (Not like that, so get your minds out the gutter). I mean some kind of lesson or take-away from our interaction with one another. I know that there is something I've taken from everyone. Whether it was a lesson in paitence or a class on overcoming, I've taken something away. Now, as for the relationship side. I don't know where to begin. That's an ever evolving lesson. I think I'm fit to teach some and learn some. My ex's are all that for a reason, but I have been able to maintain some form of a relationship with them all. Althouth some may be bordering non-existence, there is some form of cordiality there. I've learned about the emotional weight of the human heart and the cause/effects of infidelity, to name a few. There is a laundry list there that I will have to get to at another date/time. Until the next time...

Ikea, Etta, and Chris "Beat 'em Down" Brown"

2009-02-10T08:25:00.000-08:00

Is anyone else loving those new Ikea ads? I think they are frickin' hilarious. I love it. The black lady that mysteriously appears is known as "The Muse". I love it and I hope they continue running those. Who knows? The Muse might be the next Snapple Lady, LOL.

All I've got to say about the whole Etta James/Beyonce thing is that it's a tad bit ridiculous. I love Etta but she has to know that none of that inaugural ball stuff was a swipe at her. Truth is, she's probably more inclined to whoop Beyonce's ass if she's seen Cadillac Records, which I finally saw. Beyonce tried, but I couldn't take her seriously. She wasn't bad. She was Beyonce'. I kept seeing Beyonce' everytime she was onscreen. I honestly couldn't give her a chance. Gabrielle Union was surprisingly good though.

The whole Chris Brown/Rihanna ordeal. Can we say stupid? It should never have to come to all that. But it further proves that money cannot buy you happiness or common sense. Chris is about to come to realize that he's not a Michael Phelps. Wrigley's has already pulled his advertisements. I'm quite sure they'll be more backlash against the young, talented, and dumb starlet. I like them both. I hope they are both able to recover from that ignant' mess.

Thinking Without Thinking

2009-02-08T01:44:00.000-08:00

I really must applaud my subliminal ,or was it my body ,or was it my psyche? I don't know what to attribute but for it, but I am very thankful that I did not take my ass out (as planned) on yesterday or the day before. I had every intention of going out and gettng liquored up. Friday, I laid down for a "nap". Saturday, I laid down for a "nap". Needless to say, these naps developed into a full fledged "good night" kind of sleep. I missed the nightlife completely. Which, based upon my current financial predicament was a good thing. I drink and good stupid with money. (i.e. buying mofo's drinks or thinking that i've got diddy's checking account) I was able to catch up on some Z's and save some cheese. I knew I was damn near broke, but the forces that be wouldn't allow me to get broke(-er). LOL. Until the next time....

Fatassitis

2009-01-28T04:24:00.000-08:00

A Fat Ass Day is a day where all dietary and health conscious regimens are ignored. That coupled with American Idol, Chelsea Lately, Grey's Anatomy and the like can be deadly. It's a day marked with complete indulgence. Lately, I've watched this Fat Ass Day slowly creep into a week. I can't catch another case of Fatassitis. Everything tastes so good and feels so good, lol.

Oscar Contenders Got Oprah In Common

2009-01-23T00:29:00.000-08:00

Congrats go out to Ms. Tarai P. Henson and Ms. Viola Davis for their Oscar nominations. I am a fan of both, as I have raved before. It's good to see their talent being given the credit it so deserves. I did catch Viola in Doubtand I must say that she channeled something that was so real. If you haven't seen Doubt, please go see it because one of the underlying themes in the film is acceptance. Not to be a spoiler, but she has a son that many of us can identify with. It was really refreshing to get the viewpoint, albeit fictional, of a mother whose son could be homosexual. Check it out. I can go on and on about that movie.

the Curious Case of Benjamin Button is on my list o things to do. I haven't seen it but I've known Taraji to be nothing but stellar in my opinion. It's great to see that she's coming up for air in the sea of talented black actresses. I know it's got to be hard to out their for a pimp. (lol)

The connection between the two is unique, but not suprising. Oprah Winfrey was considered for Doubt and The Curious Case....

Best wishes to both. I hope Miss Sophia makes a comeback to the small or big screen. I think she's a wonderful talent as well.

Under Weather Inauguration

2009-01-20T21:27:00.000-08:00

I've been a tad under the weather. I'm feeling better now...

I tuned into the inaugural activities. It's Official! It went on without a hitch. Although there were several references to race from the commnentators, speakers, and even Obama himself, it didn't feel like he was being treated any different. I liked that.

Aretha didn't sound that bad!!!! That's the only thing I got phone calls about. Her voice has been shot. LOL.

This Whole Obama Thing

2009-01-19T19:24:00.001-08:00

I may be alone, or at least a minority, in my thinking. I am not really feeling all of this Obama mania. I am happy. I respect him. I support him. I do not, however, worship the ground this man walks on. I'm really getting the feel that some are worshiping at the United Church of Barrack these days. It's beginning to get sickening now because I personally think that the expectations for this administration are so high that he's being set up for failure. That may be the pessimist in me speaking loud and clear. The optimist in me is saying that this will be the best administration ever. They may even be responsible for locating Amelia Earhart in the next 4 years. The reality is that he's been handed 8 years of bullshit. It will probably take 8 more years to clean up. I haven't known us Americans (including myself) to be that patient and understanding.

Face it, I think we've got more of a celebrity on our hands than we do a commander in chief. However, I don't think his intentions were to be made into Beverly Hills 9021Obama. The media blitz around him has been colossal. It is no fault of his own. He's dashing. He's eloquent. He's charming. He's intelligent. He's George Clooney. (lol) There has been a change alright.

Buses upon buses of people have left here, headed for DC. Thousands of first time voters took part in this historical election. I hope that this interest in the livelyhood of this country doesn't die down on tomorrow. I can only hope that all of this energy continues to grow and empowers people to be that change they voted for. I hope that naysayers are continued to be proven wrong. I hope that the work of this administration is stronger than it's luster.

Anyways, I said all of this to say that "Yes, We Will" - (optimism perseveres)

Don't Doubt It

2009-01-06T00:24:00.000-08:00

I went and saw the big screen adaptation of the Pulitzer Winning play, "Doubt". If you're looking for a film that will keep your interest and stir your emotions, this one is it. I can honestly say that I was moved. Meryl Streep is her usual fabulous self. Viola Davis will definitely get her day with Oscar. She may even walk off with it. She delivers a heart wrenching performance. She's only in two scenes and does the damn thing in! Check it out. You will not regret it.

Alright

2009-01-05T21:23:00.000-08:00

It's only a few days into the new year and let me be the first to say that everything is going to be alright. I don't think obstacles present themselves at any particular time. In fact, they truly don't give a fuck about the new year. They don't care about what your heart desires. They don't care about where you've been. They could give two shits about where you are going. My challenge to everyone out there is not to give into these obstacles. Hurdle over them the best you can. Don't succumb. Overcome! Everything is going to be alright! I'm going to have to repeat this daily.

Doing It Again

2008-12-29T22:28:00.000-08:00

Has anyone else fell into this trap? I'm referring to this trap. This one. And this one. It happens. I'm sure it's avoidable. Why do I continue falling into it?

The Brink

2008-12-29T22:10:00.000-08:00

We are stepping on the heels of 2009, as we walk/run/jog/sail/fly/drive from 2008. The mode of transportation all depends on the year you had. I can honestly say that I'm grateful for everything that 2008 brought. There was some lemonade, but with lemonade there comes lemons.

Each year I have taken on the daunting task of making resolutions and promises, only to see them broken and unfulfilled. Ultimately, it makes me feel like a total failure. I'll literally beat myself up about it.

I'm not sure if I'll go down the road of jotting this stuff down. There is a great deal of soul searching that has to take place in my life. I can't limit that process to the remainder of 2008.

I've learned that life is a process that is not limited to 365 days. It takes time. However, I will use this time wisely. Maybe, I'll resolve to use this time wisely. No specifics. God knows. I know. Use this time wisely.

Seasons Greetings

2008-12-24T16:56:00.000-08:00

Whatever it is that you do/don't celebrate, Have a great whatever the hell it may be!

Enjoy your friends, family, significant others and such.

Embrace the memories of those angels that can't be here in the physical.

Smile much.

Laugh even more.

Enjoy yourself.

Working

2008-12-15T23:05:00.000-08:00

I thought some F'ed up Shiznit went on at my job. No. 2 is my fave.

Courtsey of MSN Careers:

10 Worst (and Weirdest) Work Stories of 2008
By Rachel Zupek, CareerBuilder.com writer

2008 has been a big year: We experienced one of the most debated presidential elections in history; the Phillies won the World Series; Madonna and Guy Ritchie separated; our economy is in a recession; and a man got stabbed for giving an inexcusable haircut.

Wait a second -- you didn't hear about that last one? Let me fill you in: A San Diego man allegedly stabbed a barber who gave him an unacceptable haircut. The man attacked the shop owner as he was closing down and slashed him twice in the face. The motive was that the man was unhappy with a previous haircut, according to authorities. (Source: 10News.com)

In midst of all the daily chaos that goes on in the world, a different type of pandemonium takes place every day in the workplace. Sometimes you hear about it and sometimes you don't -- on the off chance that you haven't, we've done that part for you.

Here are some of the stranger things that happened in the workplace (and out) during 2008:

1. Central Florida firefighters save dogs with mouth-to-mouth resusitation

Firefighters in Florida revived several dogs by performing mouth-to-mouth resuscitation after they were rescued from a house fire. The dogs were taken to area hospitals. (Source: Local6.com)

2. Man shot by friend so he could skip work

One man took calling in sick to new extremes after he had his friend shoot him the shoulder so he could miss work. The man told deputies in Pasco, Wash., he was shot in a drive-by while jogging before work. He later revealed that he'd asked a friend to shoot him so he wouldn't have to take a drug test at the office. (Source: MSNBC.com)

3. Police chief fired after stealing beer from firefighters' fridge

The police chief of a small Kansas town was convicted of stealing beer after a surveillance tape showed him taking it from the fire department's refrigerator. It wasn't disclosed how much beer he pilfered or why it was in the fire department. He was suspended without pay pending an appeal of the conviction. (Source: Fox News)

4. Man shoots co-worker while rescuing him from crocodile

Two crocodile farm workers in northern Australia were collecting crocodile eggs by a river bank when a crocodile grabbed one of them by the arm. The second man shot the crocodile, which caused him to release the victim. A second shot fired, however, hit the man in the same arm in which the crocodile grabbed him. The man survived. (Source: CNN.com)

5. DVD in firefighter's coat blocks bullet

Barry McRoy, a South Carolina fire and rescue director, was leaving a Waffle House restaurant when two men came in fighting over a gun. The gun fired, hit one of the struggling men, shattered a window and hit McRoy, who didn't realize he'd been shot. The bullet hit a DVD McRoy had in his pocket; he suffered only a bruise. (Source: MSNBC.com)

6. Man tries to pay for meal with pot

A Vero Beach, Fla., McDonald's restaurant worker received a shock when a drive-thru customer offered to pay for his meal with marijuana. The cashier called police, who found drugs in the customer's car and arrested him. (Source: MSNBC.com)

7. Store changing 'open door' policy

After being robbed three times in one year, a New Hampshire convenience store is now requiring customers to be "approved" by the store owner before coming in. The store will keep its doors locked and customers are refused if the owner can't recognize them through the glass doors. (Source: WISHTV8.com)

8. Snake bites mailman -- who finishes rounds

A 66-year-old Florida mailman doing his rounds was bitten by a poisonous snake when he put mail inside a mailbox. He told authorities he shook his arm and beat the snake against his car door to loosen its grip. He continued his rounds for the next 30 minutes before seeking help. The snake was thought to be an Eastern diamondback rattlesnake. (Source: MSNBC.com)

9. 2 ex-workers sue Neiman Marcus over sex tape

Two former security employees at an Illinois Neiman Marcus are suing the department store, alleging they were illegally videotaped while having sexual intercourse at work. The two claim they were secretly videotaped on a hidden video camera and were fired because of their interactions. They also allege that a store manager shared the videotape with several others and on a nationwide online database of security personnel. (Source: Chicago Tribune)

10. Employee is charged in fight at restaurant

Two brothers employed at a Maryland restaurant argued over their job duties, which resulted in a knife fight. One brother reportedly told the other to mop the floor, which enraged him. Both brothers suffered small cuts, but only one was charged with first-degree assault. This was the second call from the restaurant where one worker attacked another with a knife. (Source: Baltimore Sun)

Never Would Have Made It

2008-12-14T05:36:00.000-08:00

A beautiful song with purpose. Below are some interesting takes. (typed with a smile)

Now this one was cute.

Gotta Love B. Scott!

Random and Black and Entertainment

2008-12-09T21:51:00.000-08:00

I've been playing and re-playing the new Musiq Soulchild CD, OnMyRadio. I was on the fence about him until the Mary J. Blige duet, "If You Leave", surfaced on radio. That song really took me back. The CD is right in line with that single. It's worth a listen. Does anyone else feel a resurgence of R&B in the air? A week hasn't gone by that artist, old and new, have sent reminders of where it all came from. I'm excited.

While I'm on Musiq and music, I can't wait until 2/10/09. I have all of the albums and each of them speak to me. I wasn't originally as big a fan as I am now, but this did it for me.

Oprah says she weighs 200 pounds
All I have to say to Lady O is that there nothing to be mad or embarassed about. She must have forgot where she came from. I always liked Miss Winfrey with some meat on her bones. She looked like a bubble head, scrawny gal when she lost all of that weight. I would like to see her discuss being comfortable in the skin she's in. At the end of the day, she's an icon that millions look up to. It's not what we see on her, it what we see in her that counts. The woman is phenomenal, 200 lbs or 130 lbs.

I'm also excited to see some buzz around two black actresses that have been riding under the radar. That radar being Angela Bassett, Halle Berry, Sanaa Lathan, Jada Pinkett, and you get the drift. Although Baby Boy was a typical Singleton film, Taraji P. Henson, really caught my attention. I thought she was great. I first encounteresd Viola Davis in Antwone Fisher. I don't think she muttered a word. Her brief appearance on screen was one that really ripped at the heart strings. There is some Oscar Buzz around their performances in some upcoming Holiday flicks. Taraji P. Henson co-stars along the likes of Brad Pitt and Cate Blanchett in The Curious Case of Benjamin Button. Viola Davis does her thing onscreen with Meryl Streep and Phillip Seymour Hoffman in Doubt. Unfortunately, if all of the stars and moons are aligned, they'll have to go at it against one another in the supporting category. They were just announced as contenders for the BFCA Critics' Choice Awards. We have all heard about the lack of roles for black actresses in Hollywood. It's good to see there were at least two this year. LOL

A Challenge

2008-12-08T05:57:00.000-08:00

It's Monday. For many of us, Monday marks the beginning of an often dreaded work week. Along with the rigamaro of a 9 to 5, we are often bombarded with a number of other activities from week to week. Stress can be a real mofo. I don't have to explain that statement any further. We've all succumbed to stressors at some point. My charge to the blogosphere is to take this day (12/08/08) and make it a good one. Turn this good Monday into a good Tuesday and so forth. Have a great week! Do not let someone or something on your job get the best of you. Don't let someone or something in your personal life to get the best of you. If only for this week, set out and plan on feeling good. Know that no one can steal your joy. Your joy doesn't come from man. I am typing (talking) to myself. If something makes you feel like cussing or cutting, rearrange that energy into something positive like......blogging. I wish everyone reading a great week.

Growing up, the radio stations used to always play this song. It really is a positive song and a good start to the day.

Jus' A Little Latino Flavor...

2008-12-02T16:37:00.000-08:00

When it's cold outside, nothing beats a sexy man to warm you up.

I'd do them all. I'm feeling more naughty than nice today. Sorry Santa.

Graceland....(Not that One)

2008-12-02T16:23:00.000-08:00

I originally picked this book up some time ago. I loved the cover art. I didn't care what it was about. This photo immediately caught my attention. I just finished this book and I must say that the art work was a good indicator. It turned out to be a pretty good read. If you're an avid reader, feel free to swipe a copy of it at your local library, Amazon, Barnes and Noble...

From Booklist

Elvis Oke, a teenage Elvis impersonator in Lagos, Nigeria, attempts to come of age in spite of an alcoholic father who beats him and a soul-crushing ghetto environment that threatens to engulf him. Beset by floods, vermin, and the ubiquitous Colonel, chief of military security in Lagos, Elvis lives from day to day, saturated by a bizarrely out of date, misunderstood version of American pop culture and remembering his life in the country before his mother died and his father lost his career. Immigration to the U.S. is Elvis' dream, shared by his underworld friend, Redemption, although their notion of America comes mainly from untranslated, decades-old movies, all of which are interpreted only in terms of the conflict between John Wayne (all good guys) and Actor (everyone else). The novel offers a vibrant picture of an alien yet somehow parallel culture, and while the plot runs off the rails from time to time, the mix of surrealistic horror and cross-cultural humor is irresistible. Abani is a first novelist with a very bright future. Bill Ott

Reflect and Release - 12/01/08

2008-12-01T00:07:00.000-08:00

Today, I reflect on everyone that has fallen victim. Today, I hope for a cure. Today, I yearn for the ignorance surrounding this to be wiped out. Today, I want the silence to end. Today, I hope that knowledge supercedes myth. Today is no different than any other day. Reflect on it. Whether it be memory induced tears or laughter, prayers, or conversation, release it into the atmosphere.

For my angels on heaven and earth....

Deleted Temptation

2008-11-30T22:33:00.000-08:00

I must say that I really must know myself. I've questioned that in the past, but I can honestly say that I can predict some of my potential actions. If there is alcohol involved, I can attest that anything is possible. Alcohol in conjunction wih my cell phone creates a match perfect for some fuckery (literally and figuratively). Maybe a month ago, after a couple of hook-ups, I deleted the phone numbers of a lot of niggas that I just didn't want to mess with anymore. I did this while I was completely sober. I just thought I was getting a little too old and tired of the same ole' niggas bringing the same ole' shit. You know? Sex is good, but it just wasn't working with those that were deleted for a number of reasons. Anyways, this past Thanksgiving holiday, I got pretty tipsy and I started fumbling through my phone looking for those numbers. I was pissed at the time, but delighted to wake up the following morning with no regrets. Now, I'm not saying that I won't be adding to the phone book. I'm just saying out with the old and tired and in with the NEW! Come out! Come Out! Wherever you are! LOL

Black Bizness

2008-11-26T21:11:00.000-08:00

Why is you can't fully support black owned businesses/entreprenuers? I don't want to jumble them all into one generic category of not being worth your time, but it only takes one experience to ruin it for all of them. Geez......Let's get it together, people. I would blog about my most recent experience, but I am really trying my best not to get angry. It may be too late for that.

"Desperate" Housewives of Atlanta

2008-11-25T19:49:00.000-08:00

I tuned in. It was whack. I don't think it was necessary for them girls to have a reunion show. I think each of them were itching for a second season. It's scripted. It's campy. It will continue to be a Bravo hit. I do not like Lisa Wu Hartwell. I think she's a phony "shit" starter. She portrayed herself as this neutral, mature woman. I guess she saw that wasn't working in getting her s spin-off because she "doesn't do anything that doesn't make her money." Something about her really didn't sit well with me. Deshawn Snow is the most boring of the bunch. She needs to be replaced. Sheree is okay. She has over compensated herself in the confidence department. If she feels confident spending her husband's money and being in the divorce process for 3 plus years. So be it! Nene is hood. I like her. I think her whole thing tonight with Kim was a little bit much. Kim didn't even flinch a muscle when Nene was jumping stupid or Lisa. Speaking of Kim, without her this show would've been extremely boring. So let's give the Dollar Store Barbie some credit. I'm about to go to bed. I must say that I'll tune into this guilty pleasure next season. They need to ditch Deshawn (DeYAWN) and Lisa, simply because I don't like her. LOL.

AMAs

2008-11-25T19:35:00.000-08:00

I remember being totally enamored in music award shows, really any award show. But lately, either I've grown up a hell of a lot or they're simply boring. I remember the days when there were some wow factors into putting on an award program. This year's American Music Awards was a lot of the same. I think the only thing that was a shocker was when Chris Brown won Artist of The Year. Aside from that, I think I was better off catching some extra Z'ssss. However, I must say I was very glad to see Annie Lennox perform. When they were doing a montage of her best work, I really remembered why I'm a fan. From the Eurhythmics to present, she's paved her own way and made some beautiful music in the process. She rocks and she's a philanthropist. A true artist indeed.

Here's her AMA performance:

Here's my fave AL song:

Annie Lennox - Walking On Broken Glass
Uploaded by Rikardo1980

You grabbed my ass and It's So Cold In The D

2008-11-20T22:33:00.000-08:00

This is a perfect Friday post. This got a couple good laughs out of me. After careful review, I don't think we're a minority after all. LOL.

I don't know what the "D" is, but it's got to be a fucked up place.

Have a Great Weekend!

A ThrowBack For Real

2008-11-18T00:41:00.000-08:00

I have recently gotten into Martin Lawrence's 1st Amendment Stand Up comedy series that airs weekly on the Starz channel. I must say that I was a little unsure about it. I was thinking that it would be the equivalent of BET's Comicview a.k.a not funny at all. It turns out that it takes me back to the day when Russell Simmon's Def Comedy Jam was on and I had to sneak and watch it. It was hard to be discreet when you were crying laugh induced tears. Martin Lawrence's 1st Amendment is definitely funny. Of course, there are a handful of comics that shouldn't quit their day job. If you got Starz and you need a laugh, check it out. Doug Williams hosts. He even cracks me up here and there. He's clearly recovered from the below fiasco. LOL

Just a question...

2008-11-14T00:18:00.000-08:00

Is there a lack of creativity in Hollywood? I just get a feeling that big wigs are feeling a need to revisit projects more and more each year. It's a trend that has become expected. These remakes are always dissapointing with the exception of a few. A few that I can't even recall to mention in this post. However, i'm sure that all of them couldn't have sucked to me. But seriously, have you heard any sumblings about seeing The Last Dragon or The Karate Kid slaughtered in 2009? Let's leave well enough alone. Please. Seriously.

Never Judge A Book By It's Cover

2008-11-07T07:04:00.000-08:00

This man has a wonderful voice. I certainly hope that some things will change or rearrange in the industry for someone that doesn't fit an "ideal" image. Talent is talent. Anyways, check him out!

Let's Not Get Stupid Now.

2008-11-05T12:23:00.000-08:00

Okay, I'm quite sure that I am not alone in this, but how many of you have received racially charged texts in the wake of Obama's election? I've recieved a variety of messages aimed at white people. Although humor may be the intent, I think that it's very inappropriate. Obama's win is not about sticking it to the "man". This victory is hardly a victory to be honest. Forget the billions of dollars, gallons of blood, sweat, and tears put in to the campaign. Obama's battle has just begun. Face it guys, he's inheriting a hot mess. We, as a country have got to be a united front. Yeah, ignorance will continue to run rampant, but there is no need to perpetuate it. I'm so excited for this country. The opportunity is great and the potential is overflowing. We must be cautious and know that one wrong move can change the whole face of this. This moment is not our 40 acres and a mule. This moment is not our retribution for racist practices of the past and present. This moment is a step in the right direction, only if we follow our leader, Barrack Hussein Obama. He represents so much more than pigment. Let's not saturate this occassion with foolishness. Let's be progressive. Delete the ignorance that may come your way via text or email. Correct the ignorance that may come up in casual conversation. Please, for the love of the struggle, let's not forget from whence we came. We are so much bigger than that! Yes, We Are!

Obama said it best himself:

"...Let's resist the temptation to fall back on the same partisanship and pettiness and immaturity that has poisoned our politics for so long. Let's remember that it was a man from this state who first carried the banner of the Republican Party to the White House -- a party founded on the values of self-reliance and individual liberty and national unity. Those are values we all share. And while the Democratic Party has won a great victory tonight, we do so with a measure of humility and determination to heal the divides that have held back our progress.
As Lincoln said to a nation far more divided than ours, "We are not enemies, but friends -- though passion may have strained it must not break our bonds of affection." And to those Americans whose support I have yet to earn, I may not have won your vote tonight, but I hear your voices, I need your help, and I will be your president too..."

Now on a side note on last night's events, What did you think about our first lady's get up? Of all the nights and all the dresses......Hmmmmmmm.

There Are No Words That Can Truly Express This Feeling!

2008-11-04T21:41:00.001-08:00

Voting is En Vogue

2008-11-04T09:43:00.000-08:00

Please get out and vote. It actually does matter who you vote for. You'll hear many in an attempt to be politically correct say that it doesn't matter as long as you vote. That's a lie. It really matters to me and the millions of other Americans that have been subjected to this diseased country. Face it, we've been ill for at least 8 years now. Get out and VOTE OBAMA!

I'm listening to EnVogue's greatest hits and I must say that they are one of the best groups, male or female, ever. Their voices and harmonies are ridiculous. Not to mention they are all beautiful in a natural way. There was none of the bleachy blonde or MAC-ed down faces. My favorite song has to be "Give It Up, Turn It Loose". How appropriate that title is today. On November 4th, let's give up the near decade of political foolishness and let change loose. A difference is bound to occur. A positive one for all. (I managed to relate the two in the midst of my randomness, lol)

I wanted to hate this so bad....

2008-10-29T12:51:00.001-07:00

Leave it to back-to-back episodes to get you caught up and hooked! Now one thing is quite clear through watching the first couple episodes and that is that the these broads do not know each other PERIOD! Just based on some things that they've said on the show, I think they should've called it Perfect Strangers. NeNe is my favorite by far. She is so HOOD, fun and fabulous. She could be the show on her own. I could even see myself going out and having a good time with her.LOL. Kim clearly can't sing. I think that's why she has yet to bust out with a Do, Re, or Mi. I'm hooked and I'll be tuning in. The Real Housewives of Atlanta has become my gulity pleasure. Kim kept going on and on about how pretty Sheree was. Sheree kept saying how pretty Kim was. That was quite interesting to me. They are not ugly, but they are definitely not worthy of all of those accolades they were dishing to one another. A 6 and 7 respectively. Anyways, tune in and enjoy. I will.

So Sad....

2008-10-25T00:53:00.000-07:00

My heart and prayers go out to Jennifer Hudson's family at this time. Although, the details are pretty sketchy right now, I am confident that it should never come to this:

Jennifer Hudson's mother, brother slain in Chicago

Hold Up....Wait A Minute

2008-10-23T22:48:00.001-07:00

This photo is courtesy of the Splendiferous B Scott. Based on the above, it really looks like Beyonce is.... dare I say it....ACTING!!!!!

Maybe the bug has finally bit her...

Present, Not So Much Accounted For

2008-10-22T01:32:00.001-07:00

I'm dealing with this world just like the rest. The economoy sucking is a big deal, but that combined with the smorgasbord of shit one can be presented with is enough to take you away from blogging. I am present. I just don't have anything to say. It'll come back.

A Baked Couch Potato Speaks

2008-10-15T01:09:00.000-07:00

Over the last couple of weeks, I've tried to guarantee myself at least one "movie" night with or without friends/families. I have an assorted collection of DVDs that would otherwise gather dust. I've watched a couple of films that I would give a varied number of thumbs, but enjoyed none the less. I've even read a book or two. They are not that new, but they were new to me. Here are a few of my takes on them.

Transamerica

I had been pretty much sold on Felicity Huffman since Desperate Housewives, but she proved herself a real actress in playing a transgendered man in this film. All and all, the film kept my attention and it was a story I hadn't seen played out in film. It had some funny moments and some real dramatic ones as well. Felecity proved that she's truly an actress willing to take risks.

The Namesake

I really enjoy Kal Penn of Harold and Kumar fame. I think he's an effective, quirky actor. So, when I saw the DVD for The Namesake. I jumped at the opportunity to see him take on a meaty, dramatic role. The movie took a minute to really hit me. I was bored as hell with it at first. It really picked up speed as the plot unfolded. The story of a son born to Indian immigrants who feels he has to divorce tradition to fit in among his fellow New Yorkers definitely hit home. The tie-in of the "namesake" was unique as well.
Song of Solomon

If you are a "word nerd" like myself, a book like "Song of Solomon" by literary giant, Toni Morrison, will fill your appetite. It took me forever to finish this book. I would get so busy that I would stop and start, start over, and re-read this book. The book was so good that I didn't want to lose anything. I didn't want to forget one detail. The book follows the life of Macon "Milkman" Dead from birth to adulthood on his quest for identity. Loved it!

Fighting Words

"Fighting Words" is a collection of personal essays by Black Gay Men. I don't think that it's mandatory that you be either Black, Gay, or a Man to really take in everything that this book has to offer. It's well written and on point. I was amazed to see the original publishing dates of some of these essays, as they still ring true in 2008. I couldn't put this book down. I think it's going to be a stocking stuffer for some friends this year. It captures the breadth and width of this lifestyle. We are people, not something that can be thrown in a corner or hidden under a bed. This book really added an intelligent voice of experience to a number of issues, both fun and serious. loved it!

Some other things I've checked out:
Raphael Saadiq's The Way I See It: This man is one of those artist that reinvents his sound and style, stays relevant,and still manages to stay under the radar. This CD is a throwback salute to 60s and 70s soul. It's in heavy rotation. I love it.
Ne-Yo's Year of The Gentleman: He's not the cutest thing out, but he definitely has a formula that works for him. His song oooze a sensitivity (maybe he's the dude Ralph was singing about) that is effective. He's no lyrical genius, but he doesn't dissapoint. I like it.
Jazmine Sullivan's Fearless: This CD is alright. I wish people would stop comparing her to Lauryn Hill. Her content and voice are totally different in my opinion. Jazmine is definitely an R&B chick that can write some songs for the Amen corners and Beauty Shops. It's alright for me. Not bad and Not Breathtaking.
Desperate Housewives Season 5: They've fast forwarded five years this season. They need to rewind about five seasons to when the show was interesting. HATED IT!
Dancing With The Stars: I've never watched this show before this season. Brooke Burke is blazing ahead of the competition. I must admit that she's doing the damn thing. However, I'm on Team Toni Braxton. Toni is doing her thing. I was skeptical at first because she didn't seem like she was much of a dancer. She proved to be pretty good. I guess she never really had a reason to dance before now. Her music really doesn't call for it. Cloris Leachman can't dance worth a damn, but she's funny as hell. She'll stick around just for comic relief.

A Dream Deferred

2008-10-14T09:49:00.001-07:00

Martin Luther King's legacy certainly has breath in today's society. I would be crazy to say that it doesn't exist and that there is no hope for his dream to come to fruition. How much we will see of it in our lifetime is unclear. I just don't get his children. Over the past couple of years, I've witnessed some very unflattering stories on their behavior and mismanagement. Now we've all heard the saying that the apple doesn't fall too far from the tree. Their parents are heroes. Why does it have to come to something like this? They act like they are some ex-best friends on Judge Karen or some shit. I just expected better. MLK Jr. is a hard act to follow, but DAMN! Get it together people.

King children fight over papers in Atlanta court

ATLANTA (AP) — The children of the Rev. Martin Luther King Jr. and Coretta Scott King are facing off in an Atlanta courtroom, at odds over their mother's personal papers that could factor into a lucrative book deal.
It is one of three separate lawsuits in recent months among the surviving King children: The Rev. Bernice King, Martin Luther King III and Dexter King.
In Tuesday's case, Dexter King, as the head of his father's estate, is seeking his mother's papers, which are currently in his sister's possession.
Bernice King is refusing to turn over the papers, claiming her mother did not want to participate in the $1.4 million book deal.
New York-based Penguin Group is threatening to pull the deal this week without the documents.

Sarah Palin's Rear "View" Mirror

2008-10-13T20:16:00.000-07:00

Okay, I'm now more and more addicted to The View. I know, I know, I need to find something better to do with my time. I was not going to give in to the morning gab fest, but the teaser said that T.I. was going to perform and it was going to be a full show of "Hot Topics". By the way, T.I.'s album is great. He can stop exlpaining and apologizing about his situation now. There is no good excuse for that shit. Just do your time and hurry back with the music.

Sarah Palin will probably never ever grace the set of "The View". Today, it's apparent that Joy Behar hates her. Hate may very well be too strong a word, but Joy didn't mince words about the Veep candidate on today's show. They (The anti-Elizabeths) typically sugar up their commentary somewhat to make it appear that they are not in attack mode.

It's interesting how this whole thing plays out day to day.

She's That Chick

2008-10-10T02:11:00.000-07:00

I have this weird relationship with The View. I've blogged about before, as recently as this week. I've been dying to comment about the newest resident, Sherri Shepherd. It wasn't until I had the opportunity to look at Clay Cane's take (a hilarious truth) on the newbie that I had to reveal my take on her. I think Sherri, although she makes many want to physically remove her from the set by violent force, belongs on The View. She is a rude awakening for Black America. If you sit back and think, you know many people like her. I can count on two hands, several folks I know that were ill informed or plain ignorant on issues. They were well into their 20s, 30s, and 40s and had the slightest clue about some of the simplest shit. Sherri Shepherd is that chick. She has her moments where you can tell that she had an all nighter with a newspaper, wikipedia, or book. She represents that portion of America that doesn't even know that they don't have a fucking clue. She was an interesting choice for a replacement on the show, but she appeals to the Brain Fart segment of the population. Sadly, she is not alone. It won't be long before "Sherri" is the new "Blonde". I think it already is.

My Greatest Fear

2008-10-08T21:49:00.000-07:00

I cannot succumb to another eight years of the bull shit. I have come across several people that feel like Obama's got it in the bag. We can never be too sure of that. (Ask Al Gore about that) I really am hoping that America gets out and let's their voices be heard so loud that the Electoral College has no other option but to listen. If the worse case scenario occurs, I'm going to move to another country. What the hell I will do there? I don't know. How the hell I will get there? I don't know.

Enough said, this country can't take anymore. Please get out and VOTE!

(This man is sexy in a future president kinda way, lol)

If you don't know, you definitely need to find out!

Project Runway Finale

2008-10-08T21:38:00.000-07:00

I have been an on-again, off-again fan of Bravo's Project Runway since it's network debut. This season was interesting enough to draw me in. From day one, I was on Team Korto. She was scaring me for a second with the latest shows that aired. I was certain that she would get the boot, but she's hanging in there. It was sad to see Jerell get the boot, but you must admit that he had gotten away with murder this entire season. His garments never looked finished and managed to be gawdy at the same time. As weird as that was, I guess that was his style. Jerell grew on me and I longed to see a finale with him and Korto in it. Oh well. I'm still very much rooting for Korto. She has to bring it!

Guilty Pleasures

2008-10-08T21:27:00.000-07:00

Little Britain has to be one my favorite guilty pleasures on Sundays @ 10:30 on HBO. The humor is way out there, but it definitely sparks chuckles. If you have HBO and you've got a second on Sundays, please check out Little Britain. You are bound to laugh at something!

It's like In Living Color meets Tracey Ulman meets Saturday Night Live meets The Queen. Confusing? Absolutely, which makes it all the more worth checking out.

Pringles Restaurant Cravers! I know I shouldn't, but they were calling me in all their Mexican Layered Dip glory! Pringles has done it again! If you run across a Restaurant Craver that speaks to your taste buds, go ahead and give it a try. I know I shouldn't. I know you shouldn't, but the calories, fat, carbs are so delicious in this innovative snack. The flavor is on point. So, why not live a little!

Whose View Is It Anyway?

2008-10-06T19:40:00.001-07:00

Okay, I'm guilty. Honestly, I''m extremely guily of indulging in the early morning chat fest known simply as"The View". Barbara Walter's brainchild has been a sporadic staple in my life. It all depended on what was going on in the world, if i was off of work, etc...... I have religiously tuned in as of late because I love Whoopi and I enjoy their Hot Topics segment. With all that being said, I've come to notice that the show's title "The View" has become far more appropriate lately. Elizabeth Hasselbeck, the staunch Republican cannot ever get a word in edge wise. I may not agree with her philosophies or opinions, but I do like to hear where others are coming from. She's constantly being cut off and hushed like a little baby. When she does get the opportunity to speak, her words are well thought out and researched. I don't think that it's fair for her to be treated the way she does simply because she's in the minority. "The View" is exactly that, a one-sided view that doesn't welcome opposing thought and opinion. I'm a certified Demorat and often high five my TV when Whoopi, Joy, Sheri, or Barbara speak the truth. I just feel as though Republicans deserve to have their voices heard on there as well. I think open, honest communication is the gateway to resolution. So, let's stop censoring (bullying) Elizabeth and DISCUSS the issues.......

By the way, I would love to see Rosie and Star back on the show. I think the ratings and quality would go out the roof. As controversial as both of them may be, you can't negate the fact that they are both intelligent women.

(Not) Grown and/or Mature

2008-10-04T09:01:00.000-07:00

I have been guilty,quite guilty to be honest, of referring myself to be "Mature" and "Grown". I have frequently heard friends, family, and complete strangers reference themselves at "Mature" and "Grown". I think that some people get the two confused, not realizing that you can be one or the other, both, or none at all. I believe that maturity is measured in the handling of business. I always felt as though, maturity levels were best detected in the reaction to live's obstacles and occurences. For instance, the high school era may have easily found me in some he said, she said garbage. Nowadays, I avoid that shit like the plague. I've seen people several years, if not decades, my senior facilitate and thrive in environments of bad mouthing. I consider those people to be immature. As far as the "Grown" thing goes, I consider that to be reflective of one's independence. For instance, if you got your own shit and don't rely on anyone 100% (we all have our moments when we need somebody to lean on.....lean on me, when you're....) to make it day to day, you are grown in my opinion. I have a nephew that's embarking on the momentous occasion of turning 18. He swears up and down that he's grown and mature. He feels like that birthday will be the icing on the cake. I tell him time and time again that maturity and being "grown" have nothing to do with age. He doesn't believe me. I think I was just as naive.

But in the words of Brother Langston:

Mother to Son
Well, son, I'll tell you:Life for me ain't been no crystal stair.
It's had tacks in it,And splinters,And boards torn up,
And places with no carpet on the floor --Bare.
But all the timeI'se been a-climbin' on,
And reachin' landin's,And turnin' corners,And sometimes goin' in the dark
Where there ain't been no light.
So boy, don't you turn back.
Don't you set down on the steps
'Cause you finds it's kinder hard.
Don't you fall now --For I'se still goin', honey,I'se still climbin',
And life for me ain't been no crystal stair.

He'll learn, just as I did that with each step up that stair, you're inching closer and closer to being a man.

A Hidden Legacy

2008-10-02T23:06:00.000-07:00

I enjoy reading. I may pick up a cheap book at Barnes and Noble, only to pick it up and read it two years later. I may easily pick up a magazine at Borders that will find the same fate. I will get intrigued by a title or a graphic and if the price is within reason, it is SOLD! Well this happened with a magazine, I fumbled across this summer enttitle American Legacy. Intrigued by the cover art, I picked it up. I was immediately schooled on little known black heroes and sheroes. It was like a breath of fresh air from the MLK, Malcolm X, and Harriet Tubman-esque history that we've been drilled. If you ever run across it, do not hesitate to pick it up. It is certainly worth the trip don't memory lane. If you don't know, you will certainly put that glossy down knowing.

The Verdict is in...

2008-09-29T15:44:00.000-07:00

I got a hold to copies of J-Hud's self titled debut and Robin Thicke's latest offering, Something Else. Robin sold me from the first ear shot of his voice. After rotating J-Hud around a little bit, she grew on me. Her BIG ASS voice doesn't work for everything, but this CD was definitely worth the wait. She got an opportunity to fine tune it. I think she got all the songs that Whitney couldn't sing anymore. LOL. If you go out and actually buy the CDs (LOL), my personal faves on Robin's are Magic, Sidestep, and Hard on my Love. I'm really feeling Giving Myself and We Gon' Fight on Jennifer's.

Robin Thicke- A
Jennifer Hudson - B

It looks like I'm going to have to actually go out and buy T.I.'s Paper Trail. LOL

Big Hair, Big Boobs, But Not Texas

2008-09-24T07:13:00.000-07:00

I spent the weekend in Pigeon Forge, Tennessee with a friend of mine that somehow managed to get a free get-away weekend. I really was better off counting my pubic hairs but I decided to give it a shot anyway. The mountains were majestic. The food was actually not good. They kept advertising barbeque. The photos looked delicious. I should have eaten them instead. Slapping barbeque sauce on cooked meat is not enough.(at least not for my taste buds)

We trekked the Rocky Mountains. This was a plus because it gave me an opportunity to really see nature in one of it's rawest forms. There was a peace there. A peace that I wish I could've stolen and brought back home.

I am guilty of getting loss in the hustle of the day to day. I think it's important to sometimes sit back and look at what the Lord made. So many things made so much more sense out there. It was beautiful.

I was so worn out from the nature excursions that I passed out on contact with the hotel bed. I got some good sleep and some nice moments of reflection.

The entertainment value of the trip was worthy of pube counting.
(Dolly Parton's Dixie Stampede can count me out. BTW- My friend didn't know she had breast implants!!!!)
The culinary value of the trip was worthy of eating a pencil eraser.
The reflective value of the trip was immeasurable.

I give it a C.

I Love Her, I F*ckin Love Her.....

2008-09-18T02:52:00.000-07:00

I remember Wendy Liebman from way back when and I just happen to be having a YouTube moment. She is so hilarious and I'm glad to see that she's still in the game. She got my day off to a good start!

Tina Fey is Awesome

2008-09-15T08:23:00.000-07:00

Tina Fey has officially become one of my fave actresses after watching this clip from SNL. She is spot on with this one. Amy is great too.

Just As Confusing

2008-09-12T02:36:00.000-07:00

To anyone that follows my blog, I am sure that my love life (if we want to call it that) is just as confusing to you as it is to me. I just slept with someone that I vowed that I never would, but shit happens. I think I've learned to never say never. I'm officially single and on the market. I don't think I know how to act. The sex was as I remembered it. Goooooooood! But I digress.... I'm going to sleep now. The deed has been done.

My New Friend

2008-09-11T16:04:00.000-07:00

Now that my phone rings a little less

Kanye's Flashing Lights only brings memories of what use to be

That ringtone really spoke to meYou were like a superstar in my galaxy

But you know what they say, "Everything Aint For Everybody"

We gave it the old college try

We grew together

We grew apart

You'll always have a special place

It just won't be the happily ever after part that we both so desired

That was the part that we could never get right

It's a good thing that love is not limited

It will never fade, it just shifted to another place

I miss you

My New Friend

Just When They Thought It Was Safe.....

2008-09-11T03:47:00.000-07:00

Just when they thought the coast would be clear, She strikes again. LOL.

Beyonce To Release New Record In November

Columbia Records has just announced that Beyonce will be releasing her third solo album this November 18th. But we only have to wait another month to hear the first two singles, If I Were A Boy and Single Ladies, which will air on the radio October 8th. The label is calling this album "her most personal, reflective and revelatory collection to-date." She co-wrote and co-produced most of the material on the album as well.

SOURCE: Hollyscoop.com

I hope everyone has got their shot because Beyonceitis is about to plague the nation all over again. Does that woman ever sleep? I guess she's a firm believer in striking the iron while it's hot. Perhaps that could've done some good for the Mya's, Christina Milian's, Macy Gray's and the hosts of other female talent that just lost their luster. Rumor has it she may call the album "Queen B". How fitting!?

There is only one Etta

2008-09-10T03:56:00.000-07:00

I got an opportunity to catch Fashion Rocks last night. I love fashion and I love music, so it was definitely a must see. I'll give it to Bey on capturing the essence of Etta's look. She gave "At Last" the old college try. She didn't sound bad, but there is only one Etta James. In fact, I've only heard one rendition that rivaled that of Ms. James and that was in a pageant in college. Celine, Christina, and Beyonce are way too polished and poised. There is only one Etta.She is gritty, bluesy, and raw.
In other Fashion Rock news, Justin Timberlake annoys me for some reason. I can't explain it. I realized it while I watched him take on Marvin Gaye. He did a good job, but I think the actual person is what annoys me. He seems like he's that white dude that will call you a "nigga" (not a nigger) cuz he thinks he's just that "down" to do so. LOL.

Also, I think the Stand Up To Cancer track with everyone and their momma on it is a little weak. You've got Beyonce, Mariah, Mary, Leona and there vocals were not really being used. Did anyone else notice that Ciara didn't do anything beyond the chorus? I do believe in the cause. When I heard news of the track, I just knew it was going to be a guaranteed #1.

The Kid Rock/Mary J Blige duet actually worked for me. There voices compliment each other well surprisingly.

Rihanna did her thing with "Vogue". Who would've thought that she'd be the next big thing when she first came out. I didn't see it coming. She's not that great of a singer, but it works for her. I think the accent gets her a "bye" with most ears.

Beyonce

Etta

Etta

Just Because It's Monday

2008-09-08T03:34:00.000-07:00

Laughter at the expense of others.....

With all the Obama/McCain, Gustav/Ike News, here is something a little different

Meaningful Meaninlgless Sex

2008-09-08T01:58:00.000-07:00

Has anyone had a sexual experience with a cut-buddy, EX, jump-off, or anyone that was simply a warm body where they didn't get it? By getting it, I mean that they clearly didn't understand that there were no emotions outside of the physical act. I've been fooling with an ancient EX and he really tries to get me to say that I Love Him in the midst of the sex. It proves to be quite an akward moment. The only reason I have sex with him is because it's a guarantee. There is none of that old "song and dance" to it. Needless to say that it just went down and his love antics ruined the experience for me. I need to find another cut buddy, become celibate, or something because that has left me very annoyed to say the least. This is like the 4th or 5th time and each time he does that shit.

WTF is TFTP about?

2008-09-05T12:12:00.000-07:00

Tyler Perry has really shaken up Hollywood. Much props to him for all that he's done. The road he's paved is definitely a unique one. With that being said, I've seen all of the TV and print promotion for his latest theatrical outing, "The Faily That Preys". Is it just me or does anyone know what the hell this movie is supposed to be about? More specifically, can you guage what is about just by watching the trailier or looking at the posters plastered about your city. Is Tyler trying to use confusion and curiousity as a magnet to get people to his show? After All, he is up against "The Women" that weekend. Maybe I'm on the short bus on this one, but outside of googling the title, I couldn't tell you what this movie was about. I could tell you that Alfre Woodard (one of my faves), Kathy Bates (one of my faves), Sanaa Lathan (she could get it), Rockmond Dunbar (he could get it too, lol), and Robin Givens (uhhhhh, ok.) is in it. Maybe that's all theatregoers need to know. The new Coens brother films also opens that day. I love the Coens, Pitt, Clooney, and McDormand. Looks like I need to make some dates for next weekend.

Just to Break Up All Of The Political Monotony

2008-09-05T12:05:00.000-07:00

What If This Was Waiting For You At Home? What Would You Do? I don't know if I would laugh or cry. He's probably a really sweet guy. he term "sweet" is often refferenced for these types of things. LOL.

BS is not about the BS

2008-09-02T16:05:00.000-07:00

She articulated this point as well as she does a lyric or note. This political season will definitely go down in History, Herstory, or whatever... Very interesting.

McCain Doesn't Get It: Women are not that stupid.

McCain said "If you don't want them, I'll take them"

2008-08-29T09:42:00.000-07:00

In an act of shear brilliance, McCain has named Sarah Palin his VP running mate. He is really going to capitalize on those loyal Hillary Clinton voters that are still on the fence. I think an Obama/Clinton ticket would've brought the pain. I still believe in the Obama/Biden ticket. There journey to the white house has gotten a little trickier.

Saw Erykah Badu

2008-08-28T23:45:00.000-07:00

I went to the Erykah Badu concert this past Wednesday at Chastain in ATL. Two things were confirmed for me, she's pregnant and she can sing her ass off. I was left wanting a little more though. I really wanted her to perform "Green Eyes" off of the Mama Gun's album. She didn't quite get there, but all in all I give her a B plus. Jill Scott still reign supremes for me in regards to live concerts. I still got love for Erykah though.

It doesn't always happen this way....

2008-08-28T23:31:00.000-07:00

I was so prepared to fuck this nigga. I had been salivating on it in fact. He was a bonafide cutie. He was screaming "fuck me, fuck me and fuck me". I was more than ready and willing to oblige. He had the courtesy and audacity to tell me right before I drove over to get him that he was HIV positive. I was dissapointed and grateful at the same time. He didn't have to tell me that, but he did. Of course, he was saying that we could still kick it protected. I just couldn't bring myself to, but I gave him mad props for being honest. I think about my past rendevous and I can only recall one person that ever truthfully disclosed their positive status to me. I think it requires a great deal of maturity and personal acceptance to do that and I certainly can appreciate it. To the dude that I would've fucked silly, Thanks.

You've Come A Long, Long Way Baby!

2008-08-27T08:54:00.000-07:00

With Election '08 Season in full swing, I have to say that whoever got their hands on Michelle Obama must wash their hands with fairy dust. They've worked wonders on her. She was so plain jane before. She really is on the threshold of becoming, dare I say it, The Jackie Kennedy of our time. She has made some vast improvements. Yes She Can!

Before:

They are also sexy....

2008-08-18T21:41:00.000-07:00

Taylor Siluwe brought up a good point in the last Olympic post.USA aint holding back in the sexy department either.

Solange

2008-08-18T09:55:00.000-07:00

I think she's really walking into her season and out of the shadows of her older sister. I can honestly say that she never inspired me to pay any attention to her prior to now. She's got her own identity and I'm totally digging it. "I decided" has to be my secret jam.

When Do People Stop Trying To Change And Just Accept Their Faults?

2008-08-18T09:49:00.001-07:00

This question as loomed over all of my relationships, whether they are professional or personal. I have often got into squabbles with loved ones and colleagues alike over shit that is so simple. I'm too damn old, they're too damn old to change habits that are simply a part of their being. I'm the "Let's Move On" person and I attract the "Let's Talk About It" motherfuckers. I don't mind discussing it, but I don't want to relive the coversation each and every time we come back to this fork in the road. I say all of this because a friend called me to vent about another friend. I sat on the phone in a total state of deja vu. We've been friends this long to know each other well enough to know that aint shit changng. It's kind of funny, but it borders being annoying. I love them to death, but the arguments must take a new form. She thinks that the other is rude. The other thinks that that she is mean. They both are right. LOL.

I think he's sexy

2008-08-18T09:44:00.000-07:00

The 100m gold doesn't hurt.

I'm having nightmares from sleeping with the enemy

2008-08-04T05:33:00.000-07:00

Keri Hilson and "Energy" have really put some words and sounds to this "thing". I can't exactly describe it as a relationship, as it doesn't really warrant that title. However, I've been in one of those one-sided situations where you working overtime for some part-time shit. I've been in both roles. She really said it there. The lyric "I'm having nightmares from sleeping with the enemy" speaks to me in volumes, as I'm messing with an ex now. He thinks it's going to muster up some of the old, but he's wasting his "Energy". When's the last time you wasted some "Energy"?

I have not felt like blogging lately,

2008-07-22T23:24:00.000-07:00

but I have taken note of some things like ....

...the passing of Estelle Getty. She will truly be missed. Ya'll know Sophia was hilarious. She lived a long life and gave pop culture a character that will certainly live on. Don't act like you don't get into the Golden Girls. I was always told that I would be Dorothy....I don't know what that was supposed to mean, LOL.

...the BET Awards. I should've blogged about that some time ago. I will say that Ne-Yo was the best performance of the the Hip-POP genre. Usher was blah and Chris was blah. I give them blah because they were lip synching. Ne-Yo sang live and danced. Usher is played. He needs to reinvent himself. He's been around too long. It's time for some new tricks. I was loving the Jill Scott/Anthony Hamilton/MAXWELL tribute to Al Green. The Alicia Keys girl group tribute should have been limited to En Vogue because they looked and sounded the part. I love SWV and TLC but NO! Xscape and Brownstone, although they weren't as big as those that were included, would have been good to see.

...BGC, Adam4Adam, Men4Now.....It's the same motherfuckers over and over and over again. However, it is entertaining. You can't take those things too seriously.

...The National Black Arts Festival in ATL. You've gotta check it out. I've attended events there over the last two years and I always leave with a feeling of fullness and pride. It's worth a drive or flight. It really is.

...Omarosa on Wendy Williams' show was hilarious. I think Omarosa took advantage of the TV situation. It really looked like Wendy wanted to go radio on her. All in all, they both are a trip.

The latest gas station fuckery....

2008-07-09T12:29:00.000-07:00

As if giving your kidney at the pump was not enough....

Sex With An Ex

2008-06-29T02:55:00.000-07:00

It can be a rewarding experience, temporary sexual fulfillment that is..... But when someone is still harboring relationship-like emotions, it's not worth the time.

Officially Missing You

2008-06-24T03:44:00.000-07:00

First and foremost, I think that Mrs.Grant Hill is so underrated as an artist. With that said, "Officially Missing You", is not only one of my fave Tamia songs, but one of my all time fave songs of all time. There is a long list and this track falls midway. The song is so appropriate because for a while I've felt as though I was missing something, whether it was physical, spiritual, emotional, i could not decipher. I can definitely say that it's not "someone". Ex's are Ex's for a reason. I have had to come to grips with that factoid through trial and error. Shit doesn't change, it only rearranges. I don't have a thought provoking post, describing the discovery of this missing element. I'm still on the road, going the speed limit these days. I'm not in a rush. All will be revealed in due time. I feel better though, bordering happier which is adjacent to great which is next door to good. I think I'll tell someone that the next time they ask me how I'm doing, lol. I hope all is to the good in the blogosphere.

Get Into Her

2008-06-21T21:17:00.000-07:00

She had me from hello...LOL. This white girl got skillz....

Rachelle Ferrell

2008-06-16T18:23:00.000-07:00

No words can describe what this woman did this past Friday at the Tabernacle in ATL. I was vaguely familiar with her songs. I was more a fan of her vocal abilities and not really immersed into her lyric. That all changed.

She hit the stage an hour later than what was advertised on the ticket. I was pissed and tired. The sista more than made up for it. She tore the stage up. She sang high and low effortlessly. She went from song to song and I was there with here through all the vocal acrobatics. She's a humble talent and was totally majestic.

To top it off, India Arie was in the audience. Those women performed for almost 45 minutes impromptu. I knew India could sing but I didn't know she could SANG. She put her best foot forward while she was up there with Rachelle. I developed a more complete sense of respect for those two artists.

India also brought up two of her friends to sing and they were phenomenal as well.

If you ever get a chance to see Rachelle, please take the opportunity. Even if you're not a fan, you will leave that concert experience one.

Throwbacks

2008-06-10T23:54:00.000-07:00

Okay, below are some songs that I absolutely love. I had forgot about them because music has changed so much in so little time. America is really wrapped up in aesthetics as opposed to talent. I've drilled that point home several times before. There is nothing sexier than a man that can really sing. I would love to be serenaded...lol

The House was BROUGHT down!!!!

2008-06-07T18:27:00.000-07:00

I had the opportunity recently, last night specifically, to witness true artistry in it's most modest form. I've blogged abour her before. I must continue to sing the praises of none other than Ledisi. I caught her concert in ATL and she is in the vein of Ella Fitzgerald, Dinah Washington, Angie Stone, Jill Scott, but then she is so different. The girl can blow and her story is remarkable. I can't wait for her next CD and/or concert. She has a jazzy feel and flow that makes the song all hers. I stood on my feet for nearly 2 hours and couldn't find it in me to complain because the sista put on a show. It is so nice to see that music is still music. She kept it real and I loved it. If she comes to your area...GO! Ole' Girl takes it to church and then she takes it to the juke joint.

Sex And The City.....A Review of Sorts

2008-06-01T22:47:00.000-07:00

Okay, I never watched the show. I never had a desire to watch the show. I may be the only person in the universe who didn't follow the trials and tribulations of Carrie Bradshaw and Co. I was dragged to see this movie.

I can honestly say that the movie definitely caught me up to speed. I was pleasantly surprised. The movie was long, but it didn't even feel that way. Each character definitely had their moment to shine and it didn't seem as if anyone overshadowed anyone.

Cynthia Nixon's character, Miranda, really got me to thinking. What would I do? I don't want to spoil it for anyone, but it was one of the four stories that kept my attention.

Charlotte was so cute. Samantha was certainly a crowd favorite at the theater I was at.

Jennifer Hudson as Louise from St. Louis was memorable and broke up the monotony. She added some fresh,vibrant color to the pallette.

Sarah Jessica Parker rocks. I was with her from beginning to end and had the slightest clue as to the back story of her and Mr. Big. (But I was there! LOL)

All and all, i was very interested and i think i may have a new fixation. I'll need to start with season one and work my way up. There's a lot of catching up to do, but I've got time.

Two Thumbs Up!

Having A Mary Moment...

2008-05-29T09:53:00.000-07:00

I love Ms. Blige. She has her vocal hit and misses. She nailed this one. Aint' nothing wrong with loving like that. It's beautiful. She totally is giving me Effie with the last song. This is why she's stuck around so long. This is my Mary moment for the day, week, or month. I may have another one today, who knows?

Miami for Memorial Day

2008-05-28T12:58:00.000-07:00

Miami was alright. I had fun. It's always good to get away. I hope everyone had a nice extended weekend.