Saturday, August 25, 2007

Phuck Nyggaz

I usually don't get personal on this blog, but to say I am pissed right now is an understatement. Long Story As Short As I can possibly make it.

Met a dude on Men4Now that was out of town. I, being the person I am, saw it as a long distance friendship that could possibly blossom into something in the not so near future.

He apparently felt that he met his husband.

I am a firm believer in taking things day by day. Especially in these circumstances. So when someone you've known for all of 3 weeks begins to tell you that they love you and shit, there is naturally no response from my end.

Anyways, I went through burning hoops (financially and physically) to get a ticket to nyc just to spend a week up there (sight seeing, getting to know him, friend shit). I got coverage on my job and everything.

Today, this nigga calls me talking about he can't handle the distance thing. In my mind, I'm like "WTF?". We are not in a relationship, we have not even physically met. So, I'm out of the money that I spent on motherfuckin plane ticket. I really needed a vacay. Thought he was cool, but he falls entirely too fast. My dumb azz had reservations, but I thought I would give it a chance. I wasn't expecting anything outside of friendship. So, now I gotta get in touch with the airline to see if I can get a refund, voucher, or something...Luckily I've got about two weeks before the trip was to take place.

I've learned someone valuable lessons. I am totally pissed. More so about my money than his azz.

He had the nerve to ask if we could still talk. Hell to the Naw. I wished him the best in life.


That Dude Right There said...

When in doubt, don't. I guess the thought that you were hoping that it could develop into something more is what made you buy the plane ticket.

jameil1922 said...

it'll cost $100 to change your ticket + whatever additional cost to your new destination if is more than it cost to go to nyc. i would've asked for the money.

yet another black guy said...

dang, i hope you can get something for that ticket. unless you have other friends up there, you shouldn't go and waste your time. ain't that a bitch?!

KennonPurdy said...

you met him on Men4now...what do you expect? When you go to a trash can...u get trash