Water Sports

Water Sports? Why? One of my former booty calls/acquaintances mentioned an interest in it. Asked if I would partake with them in it. We haven't chatted since. I can't get down with it. There is not enough tequila/crack/cocaine/marijuana in the world... It disgusts me.

He's a great guy. We had some great times. That was a big turn off for me. Anyone else encounter any fetishes that wound up being deal breakers?

Still Here...Fatal Floosies And All

I have been so busy. I mean seriously busy. I ain't complaining. I almost forgot how to blog though. LOL. I read an interesting book by none other than one of my fave authors, Pearl Cleage, entitled "Deals with the Devil and Other Reasons to Riot". It's an older collection of essays but she's filled with so much truth, that bad boy will be relecvant for generatios to come. My fave essay would have to be "Fatal Floosies". In a nutshell, she really goes there on how one should embrace their sexuality and sexiness. I went through a phase where I would feel guilty about a one night stand or F*ck Buddy. After reading that essay, I totally felt better about it. Not that I went out and sowed my oats to every Tom, Dick, Harry or shall I say Malcolm, D.J., and Chris...LOL. It's okay to be sexually responsible. But you have to be both in this day and age. Hetero or Homo. It doesn't matter. Nobody wants to be a "Fatal Floosie". I won't go into that. Pick up a copy from Amazon, Ebay, or whatever to find out if you qualify.

BTW::::I had a one night stand that has not left my mind. It was passionate. It was sweet. It wasn't the usual f*ck and go, go and f*ck. I secretly longed for it to last longer. But I wouldn't allow myself to get suckered into those thoughts for long. It was what it was. But I like it.

Good Night Blogosphere!

Doing It Again

Has anyone else fell into this trap? I'm referring to this trap. This one. And this one. It happens. I'm sure it's avoidable. Why do I continue falling into it?

Deleted Temptation

I must say that I really must know myself. I've questioned that in the past, but I can honestly say that I can predict some of my potential actions. If there is alcohol involved, I can attest that anything is possible. Alcohol in conjunction wih my cell phone creates a match perfect for some fuckery (literally and figuratively). Maybe a month ago, after a couple of hook-ups, I deleted the phone numbers of a lot of niggas that I just didn't want to mess with anymore. I did this while I was completely sober. I just thought I was getting a little too old and tired of the same ole' niggas bringing the same ole' shit. You know? Sex is good, but it just wasn't working with those that were deleted for a number of reasons. Anyways, this past Thanksgiving holiday, I got pretty tipsy and I started fumbling through my phone looking for those numbers. I was pissed at the time, but delighted to wake up the following morning with no regrets. Now, I'm not saying that I won't be adding to the phone book. I'm just saying out with the old and tired and in with the NEW! Come out! Come Out! Wherever you are! LOL

Just As Confusing

To anyone that follows my blog, I am sure that my love life (if we want to call it that) is just as confusing to you as it is to me. I just slept with someone that I vowed that I never would, but shit happens. I think I've learned to never say never. I'm officially single and on the market. I don't think I know how to act. The sex was as I remembered it. Goooooooood! But I digress.... I'm going to sleep now. The deed has been done.

Meaningful Meaninlgless Sex

Has anyone had a sexual experience with a cut-buddy, EX, jump-off, or anyone that was simply a warm body where they didn't get it? By getting it, I mean that they clearly didn't understand that there were no emotions outside of the physical act. I've been fooling with an ancient EX and he really tries to get me to say that I Love Him in the midst of the sex. It proves to be quite an akward moment. The only reason I have sex with him is because it's a guarantee. There is none of that old "song and dance" to it. Needless to say that it just went down and his love antics ruined the experience for me. I need to find another cut buddy, become celibate, or something because that has left me very annoyed to say the least. This is like the 4th or 5th time and each time he does that shit.

Stress really makes me

Wanna go home to this......

I need to exert all of this....take all of this out on somebody......

But I guess I'll have to settle for this for the time being....

Some of my friends have rolodexes, speed dials of nyggas for times like this....

I guess I'll be the exception for NOW.

Glorious Holes

Okay...You can see where my mind is. The gutter is serving as a nice resting place for my brain for the moment. Once upon a time,years ago, I would frequent one of those sleazy sex shops with the video booths with the infamous glory holes. I can honestly say that I witnessed some truly freaky shit there. There were some truly despearate and uninhibited people there. There would be people, man-on-man and man-on-woman, doing everything imagineable through those half-dollar sized holes. It was like a real life porn going on less than a foot away from me, with only a wall and a peephole separating me from the action. There would be the occasional dicks that would slip through, but I could not bring myself to do anything more than look at those things. I was feeling freaky but not crazy. I, however, would occasionally slip mine through and get sum fiyah ass head. I know that's not much better. But I had standards, It was better to receive than give...LOL. After I left, I felt absolutely disgusting. So needless to say this fetish didn't last for long. I still like to watch folks though. I'll watch on cam, in person. As crazy as that may sound. I guess that's my fetish. Anybody else done the glory hole deal? Got any fetishes?

Sex in the Rain...Trains....Automobiles

Okay...Okay...Mokenstef had another minor hit. (At least I liked it.) The song was called "Sex in the Rain". At the time the time it had came out, I had only had "Sex in the Brain" and "Sex in the Hand". Since then, I have truly diversified my sexual resume. I'm not wild as some, but I've done it in a car several times, but who hasn't. I've done it in a park. I've done it in a baseball dugout. I've done it in a public restroom.(With my BF at the time---No Larry Craig here) I've done it in the shower. I've done it at my job, actually several of my jobs and those of others, with the exception of my current job. What outrageous venues have you done your thing at?

Touch Me In The Morning

You know that is sum of the best sex when you have that morning wood that turns into that morning sex.

Repressed Sexual Energy or Tension???

I have been excruciatingly horny for the last 2 - 3 weeks. There has not been a sexual drought, but more of a renewed need to have it whenever, however, and whatever way I want. I don't know if this is a reaction to the stress of my day to day. I pray that I'm not becoming a nympho. Maybe it's just a phase.....Maybe it's not, but I'm going to stop typing about it before I have to place some phone calls and schedule an extended lunch break. HEY!!!!